setback Archives ⋆ The Teenager Today https://theteenagertoday.com/tag/setback/ Loved by youth since 1963 Wed, 21 Aug 2024 11:17:52 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.2 https://theteenagertoday.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/cropped-the-teenager-today-favicon-32x32.png setback Archives ⋆ The Teenager Today https://theteenagertoday.com/tag/setback/ 32 32 Oops! I Cried Over a Spilled Grade! https://theteenagertoday.com/oops-i-cried-over-a-spilled-grade/ Wed, 21 Aug 2024 11:17:51 +0000 https://theteenagertoday.com/?p=29234 At school, I received a grade that didn’t reflect the effort I had put into the test. Naturally, I was upset.

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Yesterday was one of those days that started with disappointment and ended with a valuable lesson. At school, I received a grade that didn’t reflect the effort I had put into the test. Naturally, I was upset. After all, isn’t it normal to feel disheartened when your hard work doesn’t pay off? Usually, I handle such situations with composure, but this time, I couldn’t hold back my tears. It was particularly painful because I love that subject and usually excel in it.

For the past year and a half, I’ve focused on improvement rather than dwelling on setbacks. But yesterday was different. A classmate sitting next to me tried to console me, reminding me that I could improve. My teacher also came over, offering the warmest hug and reassuring words. She reminded me of my past successes and assured me that she believed in my efforts, even when I didn’t believe in myself.

At that moment, it was hard to see the positives. But my classmates were understanding and supportive, creating a comfortable environment for me. As the day progressed, my chest and head ached from crying, and I wanted to go home.

However, my coordinator insisted I stay, a decision I now appreciate because it taught me resilience.

Because if I can survive a bad grade and come out laughing, I can handle anything life throws my way.

Later, I also received my literature grades. Holding the paper for five minutes, I hesitated to look. When I finally did, I saw that I had scored well. This boosted my confidence and transformed my mood from grumpy to happy. I realized how lucky I am to have such supportive teachers and classmates.

Reflecting on the day, I see how everyone told me, “You’ll do better next time; don’t worry.” It’s funny now to think about how much I cried. Not a single person said anything negative, so why did I let it affect me so deeply? This incident taught me to look for the positives even in the worst situations.

And you know what? I’m going to remember this next time I face a challenge.

Because if I can survive a bad grade and come out laughing, I can handle anything life throws my way. So, here’s to embracing setbacks with a smile and a laugh – and maybe a little less crying next time!

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I’m ready to forget the past https://theteenagertoday.com/im-ready-forget-past/ Tue, 31 Oct 2017 10:58:23 +0000 http://theteenagertoday.com/?p=9510 I'm ready to forget my past and start anew. I have already left the negative people, but it’s embarrassing to face others as well as my parents after such a downfall.

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I am unable to change myself despite a few trials. Every time I lose focus, fatigue dominates me and I go back to my usual self. I was the school topper for the last 4 years. But suddenly I got distracted, fell into bad company and now my grades aren’t even up to the mark of average. I am unable to regain my previous concentration and focus. I am ready to forget my past and start anew. I have already left the negative people, but it’s embarrassing to face others as well as my parents after such a downfall. I have accepted that setbacks are necessary, but it would be very helpful if you give some tips for motivation and sustained focus so that I don’t fall back again from reaching my goals.
Tina (17) / Gujarat

Dear Tina, you have acknowledged that you have made some mistakes in your life: you got easily distracted and fell into bad company. You are now unable to regain your previous concentration and your grades went down below average, therefore you feel embarrassed to face your parents after such a downfall. This is for you the time to forget the past and start anew. Remember that God brought you into this world through your parents so that you could make them happy and be a useful member of society. Because of weakness and poor motivation you have experienced the pain of setbacks. Be close to your parents and ask them to help you in focusing seriously on your family duties and studies; pray also to God to help you in becoming a good and useful member of society. Do not be discouraged and work hard to achieve your goals in life.

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