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I want to teach my 7-year-old sister the difference between good touch and bad touch. She is very introverted, and I do not know how much she has understood post the session at school. She is very close to me, so my mother has suggested that I speak to her, but I am uncertain how to do so. Is there any sequence that I must follow? How should I address this with her?
J. T. (17)

I appreciate you taking up this step, though I would suggest this is best addressed by your mother. However, since you have mentioned that she is the closest to you, I will guide you with a few brief steps. Firstly, it is very important for you to understand how much she actually knows, post that you can build upon what she needs to know. Find a quiet, comfortable place where she feels safe and relaxed. You can have child-friendly books or visual aids ready to help explain the concepts. Avoid using complex words; this would only confuse her. Explain first what good touches are, using examples like a hug from you or holding hands with a friend. Follow with what bad touches are, using clear and simple language. Emphasize that bad touches are those that make her feel uncomfortable or scared. Give her time to process the information and express her thoughts. Tell her to seek help if she ever feels scared or is encountered by a situation where she feels threatened. By following this sequence and approach, you can help your sister understand the concepts of good touch and bad touch in a way that is gentle, supportive, and empowering.

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They take advantage of my quiet nature https://theteenagertoday.com/they-take-advantage-of-my-quiet-nature/ Tue, 20 Dec 2022 04:39:49 +0000 https://theteenagertoday.com/?p=23919 They take advantage of my quiet nature. Though I have told them many times not to do so, they do not listen to me.

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Some of the students from other classes keep teasing me as I am a quiet, introverted girl. Two of the girls from that class are my van mates. They take advantage of my quiet nature. Though I have told them many times not to do so, they do not listen to me. Wherever I go, these girls tease me, and sometimes use the name of one of the girls of that class. I feel really bad. Normally, I prefer to go out of my class only when needed. But because of these girls, even going out of my class seems too overwhelming for me. Though I have complained about this to one of my teachers, they have not changed. I don’t know why they are doing so, but I feel really bad. They disturb me in the van while studying, too.
K. (16) / Rajasthan

I am sorry that you have to go through this. As you mentioned that you have already tried on your own by both speaking to them and ignoring them but there has been no remorse, I feel that a situation like this would require external help. I would suggest you make one more effort in speaking to your teacher of the school/college where you study. Explain to them the gravity of the situation and how it has been affecting you mentally. If you feel that they are unable to take a stand, I would suggest that you inform your parents and let them have a word with the school authorities. Certain situations may be beyond your control and it is absolutely okay to take help for the same.

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I have no one to talk with https://theteenagertoday.com/i-have-no-one-to-talk-with/ Thu, 23 Aug 2018 10:51:41 +0000 http://theteenagertoday.com/?p=11259 I don’t like to share my feelings with my parents or family members. I like talking to people but I have no one to talk with.

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I tend to be very depressed because of my real world social life. Due to some unnecessary issues between me and my friends, I am alone, except for a handful of friends. As I am a lover of life, I don’t think of suicide. I’m an average, introvert student. So, other classmates and friends don’t help me to cope with these issues. I don’t like to share my feelings with my parents or family members. I like talking to people but I have no one to talk with. I don’t know what to do.
Lucky (16)

Dear Lucky, due to some “unnecessary issues” between you and your friends you feel left alone. Remember that God gave you loving parents and other family members in order to guide you in the best way. You should trust them and be guided by them, especially during your teenage years. Open up a dialogue with some friends who come to you for favours or help, without falling into “unnecessary issues”. Friendship is a give and take relationship. Be available to anyone who meets you and put on a smiling face. If you smile at others they will smile back at you and you can talk and share with them slowly building up a friendly relationship and avoid falling into depression.

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